OK, that may seem obvious, but hey, life happens. In Fat Girl Walking, part of life is motherhood. Gibbons is refreshingly candid when she recalls trying to become pregnant: “Sex had become less about intimacy and more of a game of how many things I could cram under my butt after my husband came inside me.” The Gibbons were so intent on trying to make babies, they’d inadvertently deemphasized the sexy part of sex.